One thing that causes frustration and unhappiness in a person’s life is a strive to please people.
People’s opinion about you be it good or bad shouldn’t determine the state of your life or your emotion. You shouldn’t be controlled by people, they are not worth it because no matter what you do people will never be satisfied.

I don’t know if there is anyone reading this post whose decision, mood, in other words, whose life is centered on the comments and opinions of people. You can agree with me that the time someone do not commend or say something positive about you, you become sad, frustrated and unhappy which shouldn’t be because your happiness is very important and I will be sharing with you some solutions to help you to stop being a people pleaser.

You need to understand that you are unique, you are valuable and the more you understand that, the less you will want to please people. Disconnect from anything, everyone and anyone that tend to steal your joy. Its always worth it in the end and you should always strive to please God, your maker and not people.

In conclusion, I want you to know that people’s happiness should be important to you but your happiness is more important.

Thanks for reading and God bless you.


  1. Yes!! Your happiness is important and what a wonderful post! I think you need to like yourself, or really love yourself and believe in yourself and when you are happy those around you will be happy too! ❤️

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